Hey Everyone,
December 6, 2009
All right, this post is in response to the multitude of e-mails I’ve received in the past few weeks.
Many of you have speculated on what has been going on in my life, and others have expressed sadness that I’m not going to write this blog anymore.
Let me clear the confusion: I will continue to write. Just for the moment, I don’t want to write anything new, so I’ll be clearing out my drafts folder. Which means, logging in, hitting “publish,” and logging out. I need to step away from the fantasy life for a moment; need to concentrate on other things.
Yes– for those who have asked– I did meet someone a while back. I liked him, respected him and trusted him. And was probably way too open… more than I ever have been, and more than I intend to be in the future.
One of the things about living a mature adult life is accepting that things don’t always work out the way we hope they will. Sometimes, we get our feelings hurt. Sometimes we go through disappointments, or loss, or even failure.
But being a mature adult means picking ourselves up, dusting off and moving forward.
Truthfully, at the moment, I don’t want to keep seeking “the one.” I want to live my life happy, and content. Which is what I’m doing. If Mr. Right happens across my path– fantastic! I’ll welcome him with open arms.
But if he never shows up?
Life is still fantastic– and tomorrow is never promised.
Everyone– please take care, have a great holiday season, and thanks for the show of caring and concern. As always, it is very much appreciated.
Cydni
December 8, 2009 at 9:58 pm
‘Hugg Tite’
I understand the need to step away from ruminating on our hearts desire. Sometimes we can’t dwell on dreaming about living, we have to live. We will be here when you get back. Be well.