This Thing We Do
November 21, 2009
Emotions are complex. Risk taking is how our spirits grow, but taking those risks can be dangerous.
Trying to put feelings into words can be a challenge as well.
How do you say, “My heart is fragile, please treat it carefully…”
Giving trust is always a gamble. One can only hope that the person we give our trust to is worthy of it.
Sometimes we choose unwisely. Spanking is very intimate for some of us. After keeping boundaries so tightly closed, the last thing anyone needs, when they finally feel safe enough to loosen them, is to have that experience and then be made to feel like nothing of consequence.
A piece of the soul gets chipped away. The desire to trust wanes.
For those of you who top, please take this post to heart. Be careful of the things you say, the scenarios you present. Remember that “this thing we do” is rarely just about the physical. Emotions almost always come into play.
And many bottoms… are fragile. No matter how strong we try to appear.
