For The Ladies

October 9, 2009

Women quite often lament the lack of quality DD videos available.

I’ve written on the subject before, and many of us ladies have discussed this on various forums.

Recently I was asked what makes a good DD movie for a woman.

I didn’t hesitate with my answer.

No overt sex.   Tenderness mixed with sternness.   A couple who appear to be around the same age– thirties or forties works best.   Clean cut.

Most spanking videos are geared toward men– schoolgirl scenes, or super slutty.   Or the absolute worst– a portly “grandpa” type spanking a naked teenager, who looks like she’s a day over legal.   And what I really hate:   A woman who is naked save her thigh-highs.   Or worse, just her top is off.   One producer of spanking movies uses this scenario frequently.

I like a small bit of reality with my fantasies.   The more the woman on screen is like me, the more I can pretend she is me.   After all, it’s all about the fantasy.

The quest to find videos that women will enjoy often comes up short.   Spanking Tube has some clips that are passable; a handful that are tasteful; the majority are pure smut, and not to my taste.

Some of the best DD videos I’ve seen are posted by Cali Cutie Spankings.   This is a real husband and wife, presumably living a real DD marriage.

Cali (Katerina) takes some pretty severe punishments at times, so fair warning.   Many of the clips posted are not for the faint-of-heart.   But some are down-right funny, and some venture toward silly.   Her husband, with his thick accent and no-nonsense demeanor, is stern, yet loving at the end of all her discipline sessions.

I’ve read Cali’s blog, and many of her replies to fellow spankos.   She seems happy in her relationship with her husband, and a genuine spanking enthusiast, so I feel comfortable suggesting their videos.

They even made a video per my request!

All I’ll say is, it involves switches… and Cali is crying real tears by the end!

One Response to “For The Ladies”

  1. cultivateddiscipline Says:

    I have been pondering this over and over. What makes a good DD video? Well, I guess reality, but it is difficult for the current producers to come up with anything close to appealing dialog :) . I do think if a video is being created, some effort should be made to pay attention to dress. Some times reality is to real. I don’t care for t-shirts, baggy shorts, cluttered rooms. Really, if you are creating product, create good product. I am not interested in knowing you are a poor housekeeper. The old guys with the young girls seems to appeal to lots of people. The whole school-girl genre creeps me out.
    :) This comment is going to be long, I will make a complete post on my blog someday. I guess I had more of an opinion than I thought.

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